Bullshitters and Lies, Conspiracies, Delusions
Introduction to the Topic The video aims to explore the differences and relationships between lies, delusions, and conspiracy theories in the context of clinical psychology
29.08.2025
Introduction to the Topic The video aims to explore the differences and relationships between lies, delusions, and conspiracy theories in the context of clinical psychology
Introduced the concept of covert borderline, a hybrid personality disorder blending narcissistic and borderline traits, and explored how it collapses into either malignant narcissism following career-related failures or classic borderline behavior after interpersonal relationship breakdowns. It emphasized that traditional diagnostic categories and comorbidities are flawed constructs, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of personality disorders. Additionally, announcements were made regarding upcoming consultations and resources for further learning about covert borderline.
Sam Vaknin, discusses the nature of malignant narcissistic rage, emphasizing its self-reinforcing, internal origin and disconnect from external reality or fault. He presents two methods to cope with such rage: careful submission that focuses on flattery and amends centered around the narcissist, and mirroring the rage back to a bullying narcissist without escalating to real-life consequences. Caution is stressed, especially with psychopathic narcissists, where mirroring can provoke violence, highlighting the complexity and danger in managing narcissistic rage.
Sam Vaknin clarified that “trauma bonding” is a misnomer, emphasizing that it is not related to trauma or bonding but is actually an addiction to intermittent reinforcement provided by an abuser’s fluctuating idealization and devaluation. He explained that this process addiction involves craving the abuser’s gaze, which idealizes and devalues the victim, creating a compulsive behavioral pattern similar to substance addiction. The discussion also defined key terms such as addiction, bonding, trauma, and intermittent reinforcement to highlight that trauma bonding is best understood as a behavioral addiction rather than a psychological trauma or genuine attachment.
The meeting discussed how modern postmodern civilization exhibits core features of pathological narcissism and borderline personality disorder, characterized by fluidity, purility (adolescent-like behavior), and ahistoricity (rejection of the past). These traits lead to widespread identity diffusion, where individuals lack stable, cohesive identities and experience alienation from themselves and society. The prevailing cultural values glorify constant reinvention and rejection of commitment, resulting in a collective identity crisis that contributes to mental illness within contemporary society. Narcissistic Civilization
In this meeting, Samvaknin discusses the nature of pro-social or communal narcissists, describing them as deeply dependent on others for internal regulation despite their grandiose self-image. He explains that these sadistic narcissist resolve the conflict between their superiority complex and reliance on others by adopting roles as moral guardians or champions of collective causes, which justifies their demanding and punitive behavior. This external narrative serves as a false self that masks their internal feelings of inadequacy and is likened to a form of psychosis due to their expansive, consuming egocentric worldview.
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