Tag: Borderline Personality Disorder

YOU as Delirious Narcissist’s Self-state (Pseudo-psychosis)

Understanding the anticipatory nature of self-states and the role of constructs and introjects allows for a deeper grasp of personality disorders such as narcissism and borderline personality disorder. These insights emphasize how fragile and permeable the boundaries between self and environment can be, leading to profound psychological difficulties.
Advances in this field open pathways for more effective therapeutic approaches and provide hope for individuals struggling with identity disruptions and interpersonal dysfunction. The upcoming seminar promises to deepen this understanding and foster community among professionals and those affected by these disorders. YOU as Delirious Narcissist’s Self-state (Pseudo-psychosis)

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From Child to Monster: What Went WRONG w/Narcissists, Cluster B (University of Applied Sciences)

Cluster B personality disorders represent a tragic disruption of human potential rooted in early developmental trauma and dysfunctional caregiving. These disorders blur the lines between identity and illusion, reality and fantasy, self and other. Understanding the etiology, clinical features, and challenges of Cluster B disorders is essential for compassionate care and effective intervention, emphasizing the need for nuanced, individualized approaches over rigid diagnostic categories. From Child to Monster: What Went WRONG w/Narcissists, Cluster B (University of Applied Sciences)

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When Narcissist is Also Codependent: Inverted Narcissist Compilation (Odd Couple Series)

The meeting discussed the concept of inverted narcissism — a covert, codependent subtype of narcissistic personality that derives narcissistic supply vicariously through an overt grandiose partner, characterized by self-effacement, extreme envy, masochistic tendencies, and a willingness to merge with the partner. Developmental roots, diagnostic criteria, differences from related constructs like echoism and borderline/codependent presentations, and relationship dynamics between inverted and overt narcissists were reviewed through expert commentary and personal correspondences. The speaker emphasized the clinical implications, potential stability of such symbiotic relationships, and the challenges in diagnosis and treatment due to variability and overlap with other disorders. When Narcissist is Also Codependent: Inverted Narcissist Compilation (Odd Couple Series)

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Injure a Narcissist

Two Ways to Injure a Narcissist: Narcissistic (overt) vs. Self-efficacy (covert) Injury

The speaker distinguishes covert (fragile) and overt (grandiose) narcissists, explaining that covert types self-supply and regulate internally while overt types depend on external supply and external regulation. Four reactions to failure are outlined—narcissistic injury and mortification when failing to deceive oneself, and self-efficacy injury (covert) versus narcissistic injury (overt) when failing to deceive others—and modification is described as a more severe breakdown that is public in overt cases and private in covert cases. The talk also emphasizes that narcissists intentionally generate crisis and drama as instrumental defenses against depression and anxiety, using abuse and spectacle to sustain grandiosity and a sense of purpose. Two Ways to Injure a Narcissist: Narcissistic (overt) vs. Self-efficacy (covert) Injury

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Abuse

Narcissistic Abuse: View from the Amazon (with Marcia Maia)

The meeting involved a detailed discussion on narcissism, its psychological impact, and distinctions from psychopathy and borderline personality disorder, emphasizing the deep trauma caused by narcissistic mothers. The speakers explored the unconscious dynamics of narcissistic abuse, the victim’s addiction to idealization phases, and the challenges of recognizing and healing from such abuse. Additionally, the conversation highlighted the complexity of narcissistic identity, the difficulty in differentiating it from related disorders, and the importance of alternative supportive models for affected children. Narcissistic Abuse: View from the Amazon (with Marcia Maia)

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Borderline’s Mating Strategies, Aggression Mismanaged

The video is focused on the mating strategies and aggression patterns of Cluster B personality disorders, particularly borderline personality disorder (BPD), highlighting their self-defeating behaviors and difficulty in managing aggression. It explained how borderline individuals use manipulative tactics in relationships, struggle with approach-avoidance dynamics due to misdirected aggression, and internalize their anger leading to self-destructive behaviors. The discussion emphasized the need for Cluster B patients to learn healthy externalization and sublimation of aggression through therapy and socially acceptable outlets. Borderline’s Mating Strategies, Aggression Mismanaged

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Predatory Women (Compilation 2 of 2)

The video provided an in-depth analysis of female psychopaths, distinguishing them from male psychopaths by their impulsivity, emotional dysregulation, and relational abuse within a chaotic, manipulative “crazymaking space” aimed at gaining power. It also explored borderline personality disorder, particularly focusing on splitting, self-destructive behaviors, and substance abuse as coping mechanisms linked to fears of abandonment and identity diffusion. Additionally, the discussion compared narcissistic and psychopathic sexual fantasies and behaviors, highlighting differences in motivations, manifestations, and the roles substance abuse plays in exacerbating dysfunctional patterns. Predatory Women (Compilation 2 of 2)

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Borderline’s Partner: Some Enter Healthy, Exit Mentally Ill (Starts 12:10)

The discussion focused on how individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD) often transform their intimate partners, even mentally healthy ones, into narcissists through a dynamic of unstable internal and external object constancy. It was explained that borderlines struggle with maintaining stable internal representations of others, leading to chaotic behaviors and emotional dysregulation, which drives partners to withdraw and develop internal objects representing the borderline, mirroring narcissistic dynamics. This cyclical interaction produces mutual avoidance and approach behaviors, perpetuating a complex and destructive relationship pattern where both parties exhibit traits of narcissism and borderline pathology. Borderline’s Partner: Some Enter Healthy, Exit Mentally Ill (Starts 12:10)

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Narcissism – Quo Vadis? (with Anwesh Satpathy)

In this discussion, Professor Sam Banknt elaborated on narcissism, differentiating between healthy primary narcissism and pathological secondary narcissism, emphasizing the fluidity and overlap between narcissistic and other personality disorders. He critiqued the current psychiatric diagnostic system as outdated and pseudoscientific, advocating for a unified approach to personality disorders while highlighting societal issues like the rise of narcissistic traits amplified by technology and social media. The conversation also addressed the challenges of regulation, societal impacts of arranged marriages, and the interplay between narcissism, religion, and culture in modern times. Narcissism – Quo Vadis? (with Anwesh Satpathy)

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