Tag: Revenge

Unforgiving Narcissist Hoovers to Revenge, Holds Grudges

The video focused on understanding the nature of narcissistic grudges, emphasizing that they are perpetual, fueled by the narcissist’s need to protect their grandiosity, and serve as a tool for control and relational management. It highlighted how narcissists perceive transgressions as moral injuries that are unforgivable, leading to vindictive behavior aimed at asserting dominance and retribution rather than genuine reconciliation. The discussion also underlined the psychological mechanisms behind narcissistic grudges, including their role in maintaining a victimhood narrative and preventing the narcissist from moving on. Unforgiving Narcissist Hoovers to Revenge, Holds Grudges

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Cheating, Triangulation in Sick Relationships: Power Play, Revenge, Entitlement

The video discussed cheating and triangulation in abusive and narcissistic relationships, highlighting how these behaviors serve as tools for power play, revenge, and emotional regulation rather than genuine infidelity or pursuit of new relationships. It explored the motivations behind cheating in obsessive, mutually harmful couples—such as restoring power balance, self-harm, and reaffirming negative self-images—and contrasted them with narcissists’ reasons, including seeking control, novelty, and affirming entitlement. The discussion emphasized the destructive cycle these behaviors perpetuate, the instrumentalization of third parties, and the difficulty in breaking free due to trauma bonding and complex emotional dynamics. Cheating, Triangulation in Sick Relationships: Power Play, Revenge, Entitlement

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Cheating, Triangulation in Sick Relationships: Power Play, Revenge, Entitlement

This video explored the dynamics of cheating and triangulation in toxic, obsessive relationships, highlighting how these behaviors serve as tools for power plays, revenge, and emotional regulation rather than true romantic or sexual pursuits. It examined how such actions reinforce dysfunctional bonds, confirm internalized negative self-views, and often follow phases of extreme loyalty and trauma-induced behavior. Additionally, the discussion covered narcissistic motivations for cheating, including entitlement, control, boredom, and fear of intimacy, as well as the risks and consequences of using third parties in triangulation. Cheating, Triangulation in Sick Relationships: Power Play, Revenge, Entitlement

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