Understanding why some individuals choose stalkers and abusers as partners requires compassion and a nuanced view of human psychology. These relationships are rooted in deep emotional wounds, profound loneliness, and dysfunctional internal landscapes. Awareness of these dynamics can inform better therapeutic approaches, support systems, and prevention strategies. Recognizing that abuse can sometimes be perceived as comfort is crucial to breaking the cycle and helping victims find healthier ways to fulfill their emotional needs. When Stalkers, Abusers are “Ideal” Partners