The speaker distinguishes independence (healthy ego and boundary maintenance with cooperative engagement) from defiance (exclusionary, antagonistic withdrawal), and maps a spectrum of reactant defiance from ostentatious eccentricity through nonconformity and consummacious rejection of authority to active rebelliousness and crime. 2) Narcissists and psychopaths use defiance—driven by traits like dissociality and antagonism—as a pride-infused, anxiolytic strategy to signal superiority and maintain fragile self-concepts, often frustrating others and treating people as disposable investments. 3) These defensive, disinhibitory strategies are ultimately self-defeating: reality breaches their defenses, leading to collapse, social isolation, substance use, emotional dysregulation, and sometimes suicide, leaving no sustainable legacy. Narcissist, Psychopath: My Way or Highway, Eff You, In Your Face Factor