Tag: Narcissism

Narcissism: Social Malaise Affects Individuals (with Psychologist and Biologist Marcia Maia)

Healthy narcissism is a foundational element of mental health—regulating self-worth, identity, and functioning—while the speaker argued that reality testing should be added as a core criterion to distinguish health from shared or delusional fantasies. The discussion warned that political correctness, the glamorization/denial of mental illness, and social media’s business model encourage addictive shared fantasies and hive minds that amplify envy, anger, and exclusion, eroding institutions and interpersonal belonging. The guest argued we are amid a major narrative transition (from reality-based to fantasy-based social organization) that is fragmenting society, increasing atomization and risk, and may be effectively irreversible once fully entrenched. Narcissism: Social Malaise Affects Individuals (with Psychologist and Biologist Marcia Maia)

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Loner Narcissist

Narcissist=Insane? You, Envy, Withdrawal, Loner Narcissist

The complex relationship between narcissism and schizoid personality disorder reveals how deeply intertwined withdrawal, envy, and self-fragmentation are in human psychology. Recognizing these links allows for a more compassionate understanding of these challenging personality structures. As society continues to evolve, awareness and informed approaches are crucial to mitigate the rising mental health crisis rooted in alienation and narcissistic pathology. Narcissist=Insane? You, Envy, Withdrawal, Loner Narcissist

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Narcissist’s Seductive Hyperreality: Feminine Sign-value of False Self (Baudrillard)

Lecturer applies Baudrillard’s spectacle theory to pathological narcissism, arguing that in postmodern hyper-simulation identities are performative and constructed from the sign-value of possessions and curated images. Narcissism acts as a defensive, preemptive objectification in which the false self replaces the authentic self, broadcasting superiority and seducing others into a fabricated reality. Unlike psychopathy’s direct destruction of external reality, narcissism subverts it through mimicry, seduction, and the reproduction of simulations—phenomena amplified by social media and consumer culture. Narcissist’s Seductive Hyperreality: Feminine Sign-value of False Self (Baudrillard)

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No Contact with NON-abusive Parents, Family? (The Nerve with Maureen Callahan)

Professor Sam Vaknin discussed the distinction between legitimate no-contact as a response to abuse and estrangement driven by narcissism, atomization, and hypervigilance, arguing that many who cut family ties for minor disagreements are enacting a form of externalized aggression. He explained how projected splitting, projection, and projective identification in dysfunctional parents create the golden child and scapegoat roles, which often persist into adulthood and shape sibling dynamics and identity. Vaknin recommended reconstruction and integration over permanent estrangement—advocating empathy, realistic understanding of parental limitations, and reconciliation where possible, while acknowledging exceptions for genuine abuse. No Contact with NON-abusive Parents, Family? (The Nerve with Maureen Callahan)

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How To Recognize Covert/Collapsed Personality Disorders

Sam Vaknin argued that many personality disorders — especially Cluster B (narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, antisocial) — reflect a single underlying disorder characterized by confusion between internal and external objects, with individuals transitioning between overt, collapsed, and covert states driven by narcissistic gaps and mortification. He described covert, collapsed, and overt presentations and outlined five covert narcissist solutions (delusional narrative, antisocial, paranoid/schizoid, paranoid-aggressive/explosive, masochistic/avoidant), extending similar state models to borderline, histrionic, and antisocial presentations. He concluded that diagnostic categories are overly fragmented and advocated for a parsimonious, dynamic model unifying these disorders while directing viewers to detailed videos and literature for deeper study. How To Recognize Covert/Collapsed Personality Disorders

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On Narcissists and Narcissism (Sam Vaknin on Exist Real in NAVSOS, Worthing UK)

Sal Vaknin discusses his book Malignant Self-Love and his decades of work on narcissism, describing narcissistic personality structure, origins, behaviors (idealization/devaluation cycle, need for narcissistic supply), and differences between healthy and pathological narcissism. He explains causes including abuse and possible genetic predisposition, clinical features (false self, lack of empathy, external locus of control), strategies for victims (no contact, depersonalize interactions, withhold/provide supply), and societal trends toward increasing and legitimizing narcissism aided by technology and social incentives. He outlines diagnostic distinctions (narcissistic vs. malignant narcissist, antisocial/psychopathy), gendered manifestations, warning signs to spot narcissists, and the challenges of research and public misunderstanding. On Narcissists and Narcissism (Sam Vaknin on Exist Real in NAVSOS, Worthing UK)

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Narcissism: BIBLE Got There FIRST! (FULL VIDEO in Description)

The speaker discussed narcissistic traits as described in the Bible, emphasizing its detailed characterization predates modern diagnostic manuals like the DSM and ICD. They highlighted the diagnostic criteria from the DSM and the lack of narcissistic personality disorder diagnosis in the ICD, noting regional variations in terminology usage. The lecture was structured into two parts: phenomenology of the typical narcissist and further discussion on associated traits. Narcissism: BIBLE Got There FIRST! (FULL VIDEO in Description)

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Narcissists Never Criticize: They Vanish YOU Instead

In the video titled “Narcissists Never Criticize,” the speaker explained that narcissists do not genuinely criticize others because they cannot perceive others as separate external entities. Instead, narcissists project and interact only with internalized representations, making any apparent criticism a reflection of their own internal conflicts rather than an attempt to change the external person. Consequently, narcissistic “criticism” is subjective, delusional, and devoid of constructive intent. Narcissists Never Criticize: They Vanish YOU Instead

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Controlling, Abandoning YOU: Neglectful vs. Fretful Narcissist Passive-aggression

The video explored the traits of fretful and neglectful narcissists, highlighting their contrasting behaviors of overconcern and abandonment, both perceived by the narcissist as expressions of love but experienced by partners as control or rejection. It delved into the narcissist’s diffuse negative emotions, impaired impulse control, and externalized locus of control, stemming from childhood trauma and leading to passive-aggressive behaviors. The discussion emphasized the narcissist’s internal conflict between a grandiose self-concept and a vulnerable self-narrative, resulting in inconsistent behaviors and a cyclical swing between approach and avoidance in relationships. Controlling, Abandoning YOU: Neglectful vs. Fretful Narcissist Passive-aggression

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