Sambaknim distinguishes between external and internal forms of narcissistic discard: external discard is visible and unequivocal (separation, divorce, infidelity), while internal discard is subtle and hidden, occurring when partners remain together publicly but emotionally disengage. Internal discard manifests as emotional absence, indifference, devaluation, setting impossible standards, paranoia, and undermining the partner—behaviors that erode the relationship from within and are difficult for outsiders to detect. Pathological narcissism favors internal discard because it relies on falsity and performative appearances, making the harm covert, passive-aggressive, and persistent rather than overt separation. Many Faces of Narcissist’s Discard