Tag: Binary Narcissism

When Narcissist is Also Codependent: Inverted Narcissist Compilation (Odd Couple Series)

The meeting discussed the concept of inverted narcissism — a covert, codependent subtype of narcissistic personality that derives narcissistic supply vicariously through an overt grandiose partner, characterized by self-effacement, extreme envy, masochistic tendencies, and a willingness to merge with the partner. Developmental roots, diagnostic criteria, differences from related constructs like echoism and borderline/codependent presentations, and relationship dynamics between inverted and overt narcissists were reviewed through expert commentary and personal correspondences. The speaker emphasized the clinical implications, potential stability of such symbiotic relationships, and the challenges in diagnosis and treatment due to variability and overlap with other disorders. When Narcissist is Also Codependent: Inverted Narcissist Compilation (Odd Couple Series)

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Why Narcissist Devalues YOU (Hint: Wants YOU “Dead”) – Binary Narcissism

In this video, Sam Wagner explained that narcissists devalue intimate partners because they resist conforming to the narcissist’s rigid internalized “snapshot” and challenge their grandiosity, which threatens their sense of control and exacerbates their deep-seated existential emptiness. He detailed the complex internal dynamic of narcissists stuck between overt and covert states, where an internal “civil war” leads to simultaneous idealization and devaluation of others, with the overt part interacting with external sources for narcissistic supply while the covert part preemptively devalues those same sources to protect itself. This internal conflict results in confused and damaging relational patterns, uniquely constituting what Wagner terms “narcissistic abuse.”Why Narcissist Devalues YOU (Hint: Wants YOU “Dead”) – Binary Narcissism

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Overt+Covert Narcissist in One Person: Self-supply (44:17), Binary Narcissism

The speaker discusses the concept of a system of residuals in narcissism, where two distinct narcissistic self-states—overt and covert—can coexist simultaneously within one individual, leading to internal conflict and dissonance. This binary system arises when neither state is effective alone, resulting in self-supply dynamics through mutual hostility and fantasy defenses. The speaker suggests that this state, while challenging, presents a unique therapeutic opportunity to induce vulnerability and promote healing through educational and empathetic interventions. Overt+Covert Narcissist in One Person: Self-supply (44:17), Binary Narcissism

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