Tag: Self-efficacy

Injure a Narcissist

Two Ways to Injure a Narcissist: Narcissistic (overt) vs. Self-efficacy (covert) Injury

The speaker distinguishes covert (fragile) and overt (grandiose) narcissists, explaining that covert types self-supply and regulate internally while overt types depend on external supply and external regulation. Four reactions to failure are outlined—narcissistic injury and mortification when failing to deceive oneself, and self-efficacy injury (covert) versus narcissistic injury (overt) when failing to deceive others—and modification is described as a more severe breakdown that is public in overt cases and private in covert cases. The talk also emphasizes that narcissists intentionally generate crisis and drama as instrumental defenses against depression and anxiety, using abuse and spectacle to sustain grandiosity and a sense of purpose. Two Ways to Injure a Narcissist: Narcissistic (overt) vs. Self-efficacy (covert) Injury

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Why I am Hopelessly Depressed (Self-efficacy)

The speaker reflects on their diminished self-efficacy, attributing it not only to personal failures but significantly to drastic societal and cultural changes that undermine rationality, intelligence, and traditional values rooted in the Enlightenment. They highlight the rise of anti-intellectualism, nihilism, and a decline in critical thinking as contributing factors leading to a widespread sense of alienation and mental health struggles among educated individuals. Ultimately, the speaker views the current era as a dystopian decline where the values they uphold are devalued, making it increasingly difficult to thrive or find meaning in the modern world. Why I am Hopelessly Depressed (Self-efficacy)

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