Tag: Sadistic

3 Narcissists: Faker, Iconoclast, Doomsayer

Sam Vaknin outlines a nosology of pro-social or communal narcissists, identifying three types: the faker who ostentatiously conforms and exploits existing systems; the iconoclast who rejects the old order to impose a new one and offers followers hope and direction; and the brutally honest narcissist who weaponizes honesty as sadistic, misanthropic aggression. He describes each type’s motives, strategies, and social effects, noting how fakers signal conformity, iconoclasts create a new in-group narrative, and brutal honestists inflict harm under the guise of candor. Vaknin warns these varieties are increasingly prevalent in postmodern society and calls attention to their damaging consequences. 3 Narcissists: Faker, Iconoclast, Doomsayer

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Covert Narcissist’s Sadistic Envy Fantasy (conference presentation)

The intricate relationship between covert narcissism, malicious envy, and sadistic behavior, emphasizing how covert narcissists harbor a deep wish to destroy those they envy due to feelings of inferiority and rivalry. It highlighted findings from a recent Italian study linking grandiose narcissism, narcissistic rivalry, and malicious envy with sadism, illustrating how these traits drive the desire to inflict pain and regain control. The conversation underscored that sadism in narcissism is fundamentally about power and control, often masked by fantasies and pseudo-morality, with covert narcissists exhibiting particularly pronounced passive-aggressive sadistic tendencies.

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