Tag: Power Dynamics

Avoid Toxic Love of Toxic People

In this video, Sam Vaknin explored the concept of toxic and conditional love, emphasizing how unhealthy early experiences with love lead individuals to misinterpret and rely on corrupted forms of affection characterized by performance, coercion, and manipulation. He explained the detrimental effects such as codependency, borderline behaviors, triangulation, and infidelity, highlighting how these dynamics create unstable and damaging relationships. Ultimately, true love is described as unconditional, embracing individuality and autonomy, whereas toxic love demands change and control, inevitably resulting in relationship breakdowns. Avoid Toxic Love of Toxic People

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Watch This to Make Sense of the World

The speaker discussed the historical dominance of elites over politics and society, how the middle class was co-opted to control the masses, and the subsequent rise of mass movements challenging elite power. They highlighted the role of technology, such as the printing press and social media, in redistributing power to the masses, leading to populist movements and democratic participation, albeit within a system still largely controlled by elites. The pandemic further exposed systemic inequalities and elite control, prompting a call for individuals to resist manipulation and opt out of the societal rat race to reclaim personal agency. Watch This to Make Sense of the World

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