Tag: Narcissistic Rage

Psychopaths, Narcissists Rage Differently, for Different Reasons

The speaker distinguishes narcissistic rage from psychopathic rage, explaining that narcissistic rage is reactive, short-lived, ostentatious, and serves as self-regulation to restore grandiosity, while psychopathic rage is goal-oriented, instrumental, and often driven by frustration. Narcissistic rage stems from internal conflicts between feelings of unworthiness and grandiosity, negates intimacy, and can escalate into borderline-like dysregulation or psychotic micro-episodes. The talk also situates narcissistic rage within broader frameworks of grief, depression, and psychopathology, proposing that grandiosity functions as a compensatory defense against inner despair. Psychopaths, Narcissists Rage Differently, for Different Reasons

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How to Extinguish Narcissist’s Rage

Sam Vaknin, discusses the nature of malignant narcissistic rage, emphasizing its self-reinforcing, internal origin and disconnect from external reality or fault. He presents two methods to cope with such rage: careful submission that focuses on flattery and amends centered around the narcissist, and mirroring the rage back to a bullying narcissist without escalating to real-life consequences. Caution is stressed, especially with psychopathic narcissists, where mirroring can provoke violence, highlighting the complexity and danger in managing narcissistic rage.

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