The video focused on understanding the nature of narcissistic grudges, emphasizing that they are perpetual, fueled by the narcissist’s need to protect their grandiosity, and serve as a tool for control and relational management. It highlighted how narcissists perceive transgressions as moral injuries that are unforgivable, leading to vindictive behavior aimed at asserting dominance and retribution rather than genuine reconciliation. The discussion also underlined the psychological mechanisms behind narcissistic grudges, including their role in maintaining a victimhood narrative and preventing the narcissist from moving on. Unforgiving Narcissist Hoovers to Revenge, Holds Grudges