Understanding narcissism requires recognizing that the narcissist’s emotional world revolves around fantasies rather than real interpersonal relationships. The idealization you experience is selective and serves to elevate the narcissist’s own self-image. Similarly, introjected images of others are tools within these fantasies, lacking genuine emotional attachment.
For those involved with narcissists, this insight can clarify the confusing dynamics of validation, idealization, and emotional detachment. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward establishing boundaries, protecting self-esteem, and fostering healthier relationships. Narcissist: It’s Not About You! It’s the Fantasy! (Hierarchy of Introjects)