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Controlling, Abandoning YOU: Neglectful vs. Fretful Narcissist Passive-aggression

The video explored the traits of fretful and neglectful narcissists, highlighting their contrasting behaviors of overconcern and abandonment, both perceived by the narcissist as expressions of love but experienced by partners as control or rejection. It delved into the narcissist’s diffuse negative emotions, impaired impulse control, and externalized locus of control, stemming from childhood trauma and leading to passive-aggressive behaviors. The discussion emphasized the narcissist’s internal conflict between a grandiose self-concept and a vulnerable self-narrative, resulting in inconsistent behaviors and a cyclical swing between approach and avoidance in relationships. Controlling, Abandoning YOU: Neglectful vs. Fretful Narcissist Passive-aggression

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20.11.2025

Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voice? Do THIS!

In this session, Speaker San Bachmanin explored the complex psychological dynamics of narcissistic abuse, emphasizing how victims are often psychologically hijacked by their abusers, complicating healing and separation. He highlighted that victims must first recognize and silence the narcissist’s intrusive inner voice to revive their authentic self and truly recover. The discussion also touched on the intertwined nature of narcissism, codependency, and borderline traits, advocating for humility and self-awareness as essential steps toward individuation and healing. Hijacked by Narcissist’s Serpent Voice? Do THIS!

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18.11.2025

Get Parasite Narcissist Out of Your Colonized Mind

The video detailed the psychological mechanisms narcissists use to control and manipulate victims, including shared fantasy, dissociative states, and brainwave entrainment, which lead to the victim’s mind being hijacked and emotions and thoughts becoming artifacts of the abuser. It highlighted the profound effects of abuse on memory, identity, and self-regulation, explaining how trauma bonding and prolonged grief disorder perpetuate suffering even after the abuse ends. The discussion emphasized the necessity of memory recovery, differentiation of authentic self from implanted interjects, and individuation as critical steps toward healing and reclaiming one’s identity. Get Parasite Narcissist Out of Your Colonized Mind

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17.11.2025
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Narcissistic Abuse: View from the Amazon (with Marcia Maia)

The meeting involved a detailed discussion on narcissism, its psychological impact, and distinctions from psychopathy and borderline personality disorder, emphasizing the deep trauma caused by narcissistic mothers. The speakers explored the unconscious dynamics of narcissistic abuse, the victim’s addiction to idealization phases, and the challenges of recognizing and healing from such abuse. Additionally, the conversation highlighted the complexity of narcissistic identity, the difficulty in differentiating it from related disorders, and the importance of alternative supportive models for affected children. Narcissistic Abuse: View from the Amazon (with Marcia Maia)

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15.11.2025
Healing, Narcissism

Healing Narcissism: Cold Therapy Seminar, Part 2 (Purchase Entire Series), Vienna, May 2017

The video focused on the psychological concepts underlying narcissism, particularly the development of the false self as a protective mechanism in response to early childhood trauma and attachment issues with a nonresponsive caregiver. It emphasized that narcissism is a post-traumatic condition characterized by emotional dysregulation, dissociation, and identity fragmentation, and introduced “cold therapy,” a controversial approach involving controlled retraumatization in a hostile environment to help integrate the narcissistic personality. The discussion also addressed cultural differences in therapeutic approaches, the rising prevalence of narcissism in modern societies, and the importance of predictable caregiver responses in healthy child development. Healing Narcissism: Cold Therapy Seminar, Part 2 (Purchase Entire Series), Vienna, May 2017

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15.11.2025

Sick Society Makes YOU Sick (Loneliness Industry Podcast)

The podcast episode featured an in-depth conversation with Sam Vaknin on the psychological cycle of narcissism, exploring the transition between covert and overt narcissistic states and their societal implications. They examined the pathological nature of Western spiritualism, magical thinking, and collective delusions as coping mechanisms for vulnerability and disempowerment. The discussion also critiqued contemporary psychology’s limitations, the social control embedded in mental health diagnoses, and the impact of atomization and fear-driven conformity on individual autonomy and empathy. Sick Society Makes YOU Sick (Loneliness Industry Podcast)

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15.11.2025
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When Narcissist Reminds You of Someone: Narcissistic Transferences (Idealizing, Mirror, Twinship)

The video discussed the psychological concept of transference, particularly focusing on narcissistic transference as explained through psychoanalysis and self psychology. It detailed how individuals project unresolved childhood dynamics onto others, creating expectations that these new relationships fulfill past unmet needs, often leading to distorted perceptions and dysfunctional interactions. The speaker emphasized the therapeutic importance of recognizing and working through transference and counter-transference to improve self-awareness and relational functioning, especially in narcissistic relationships. When Narcissist Reminds You of Someone: Narcissistic Transferences (Idealizing, Mirror, Twinship)

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15.11.2025
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Lovebombing to Discard: 5 Energies of Narcissist’s Cathexis Cycle

The video discussed the emotional investment cycle of narcissists, highlighting their characteristic oscillation between intense emotional involvement and complete withdrawal, termed “splitting cathexis.” It explained how narcissists engage in a shared fantasy with others involving stages of idealization, devaluation, discard, and replacement, driven by psychic energy allocation to internal objects rather than genuine external attachments. The presenter emphasized that narcissistic behaviors are governed by unconscious energy management, with transitions between relationships following specific psychological rules rather than randomness. Lovebombing to Discard: 5 Energies of Narcissist’s Cathexis Cycle

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15.11.2025
Borderline Enchantress

Tips: Survive Your Borderline Enchantress

The lecture discussed coping strategies for living with individuals, particularly women, with borderline personality disorder (BPD), highlighting core issues such as abandonment anxiety, identity disturbance, emotional dysregulation, and transient paranoid ideation. It emphasized the importance of establishing stability, reality testing, communication protocols, emotional regulation techniques, and gradual transfer of personal responsibility to help manage symptoms and prevent harmful behaviors like self-mutilation and acting out. While acknowledging the challenges and emotional toll, the speaker also recognized the deep, unconditional love and unique gifts that come with relationships with borderline individuals for those dedicated to sustained effort. Tips: Survive Your Borderline Enchantress

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13.11.2025
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Sadistic Envy: Pleasure of Destroying Your Betters (Narcissism Summaries Clip)

The video discussed the role of malicious envy as a central characteristic of covert narcissism, highlighting its connection to sadism through the desire to exert power and control over others. It differentiated between grandiose and vulnerable narcissism, emphasizing how both types derive pleasure from dominance and the pain of others, with covert narcissists being more emotionally dysregulated and reliant on controlling others. The discussion concluded that malicious envy and narcissistic rivalry underpin aggressive behaviors that reinforce the narcissist’s grandiose self-image, often leading to destructive outcomes. Sadistic Envy: Pleasure of Destroying Your Betters (Narcissism Summaries Clip)

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13.11.2025

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